How to Perform Incredible Manual Stimulation on a Woman

The techniques below aren't rules written in stone, instead they are guidelines and ideas, change them as necessary to fit her preferences.
1) The Classic
If you've ever fingered a woman then you've probably used this simple technique. But just because it is standard and easy doesn't mean it's not effective, in fact this is one that for most women is guaranteed to get the job done.
After you know she's properly moist you take your index and middle fingers and work them in a circular motion around the clit. Make sure you let her know to keep you informed on her situation, some women love constant clitoral stimulation until climax but some love a bit more variety. She may want you to use those fingers and go inside her for a while before returning to her clit. Pay attention to her reactions and listen to what she has to say.
Don't go too fast at first and always keep a good rhythm, breaking rhythm will interrupt her engagement in the moment and possibly prevent her from climaxing. Unless, of course, she wants you to, then by all means, do as she asks.
2) Doubling Up
This is a very powerful technique but before you attempt it make sure you can rub your stomach and pat your head at the same time. When you are able to do that you need to place yourself between the girl’s legs while she is lying on her back or sitting, you can also sit to one side or the other.
With one hand you move your fingers in a thrusting motion inside her vagina and with the other hand you a make circular motion around her clit. To be able to more easily pull this one off without losing your smooth tempo you might want to start with only one hand or the other and when you're in the groove slowly add the second hand.
Even though each hand needs to keep its own rhythm, nobody says both hands need to follow the same beat. Vary it, find what gets the best reaction and remember to always listen to what she has to say.
3) Using Fingering Sex Toys
There's nothing wrong with looking outside the human body for a little help and variety in your manual stimulation. There are a few different main options that you have available to you.
The first option is aptly called a finger, these are typically made of jelly or silicone and are similar in shape to thimbles but tend to be placed over your index and middle fingers. They are ribbed or covered in little nubs which provide added stimulation over the bare finger alone.
Clit vibrators such as bullets are often used by women for masturbation, but don't think for a second that they can't be used by a partner for added pleasure. Some bullets even come with their own covers, very similar to the fingers explained above but made to fit snugly over a small vibrating bullet. 3) The Variety is in the Sex Toys
We all enjoy some variety, always sticking to the same things will get a bit dull. And to help keep you interested in fingering your partner maybe you should think about trying out some sex toys.
There are many options but keeping to the theme, I will go over two different types. The first type is aptly called a finger, these little guys fit over your fingertip, are made of rubber or silicone and usually have bumps or ticklers on them to up the stimulation level.
A second option is the world famous vibrating bullet. These are very commonly known for women using them to masturbate. But don't think they can't be used just as easily to please your partner, and to take it even further you can place the fingers mentioned above over the bullet!
Thoughts to End By
If you want to truly become a better lover you need to think about variety, keeping things new, always trying new things. Practice makes perfect and that holds true, even in the sexual world. Pleasure comes in many variations and there are always more to find and explore. so don't let yourself get caught in a rut, go out and find to ways to please your lover, it's what will set you apart from all the other 'average joes'.
And don't forget, some women don't produce enough lube on their own and may need a little help through some water-based lubricant.

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This article was provided by Eric Schmidt, writer for The Sex Toy Life. He also writes for eZines, blogs and article directories on fingering a girl, sexuality and health.

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